Anal play may seem strange to some people, yet its pleasure can be indescribably pleasurable - something anyone, regardless of gender or sexual orientation can enjoy.
. When considering anal fingering for the first time, it's essential to take some steps to ensure your partner feels at ease with it and that all questions regarding its use have been asked and addressed beforehand. Ideally this should happen outside the bedroom, during non-sexual time so as to not rush things or include the discussion during sexual encounters that could muddy judgment and feelings.
Once that's taken care of, the fun can begin! After keeping their anal area lubricated with oil or lotion, slide your finger over their anus and begin massaging it like you would a butthole. "Once both parties have established an acceptable comfort level," Matatas advises that once inserting fingers deep can begin. She advises gently massaging around their anus in order to help relax its internal anal sphincter muscle as slowly inserting your finger as possible.
As soon as you're comfortable with your anal penetration technique, add a layer of excitement by including vibrators or strings of anal beads in your partner's anus. "Alternatively, use a small dildo until both parties become more acquainted," suggests Goldstein.
Anal fingering is a great way to stimulate the anus, buttocks, and penis. Furthermore, it offers partners an engaging way of switching roles in bed - dominant partners can try being submissive while vice versa! Furthermore, fingering may even open the doors to other forms of butt play such as anal sex when both partners feel ready.
