The clitoris is known for being an intense orgasm trigger, but there are multiple ways you can stimulate it. From your hands or sex toys to body parts such as your tongue - any of these options can work just fine to stimulate it and can become highly enjoyable once found! Although initially it may feel intimidating or daunting to explore this small area, once found what feels comfortable it becomes very enjoyable to play with and explore further. Start slowly before gradually increasing pressure or speed until your body responds positively; always listen to its signals!
As a beginner, try using your fingers to stroke the clitoral hood up and down or in circles with either your fingertips or someone else's tongue. Rub gently with either one; put clit in penetrative positions such as Amazon or reverse cowgirl can be extremely pleasurable too! For something different try stroking it with toys with different speeds or vibration settings for added pleasure!
As a woman, it is key to remember that your clit contains numerous nerve endings, making it highly sensitive. While you may be tempted to apply pressure when initiating new techniques, remember to only ever apply light pressure in order to avoid turning pleasure into pain. Establish clear communication with your partner beforehand as well as set boundaries and safe words prior to engaging any new techniques.
